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Ladies talk.. Techniques to find and fix emotional leakage Hey ladies, it's definitely another beautiful day we are being gifted. I'm pretty sure the one reading this is actually safe and sound. Maybe you are at work, home, traveling, or just anywhere; let me tell you I prepared this little thing for you. Without wasting time, if you have gotten a chance to read my last two articles, you have already grasped I'm writing for ladies, it doesn't matter if you are taken or single, I just be writing for you queens. I'm having this ''Ladies talk'' blog series and that's that. Since I'm a lady and I'm full of love and positivity, I found a reason to be sharing my two cents with you. And if you like what I do, please do share.  OK. Now, let's just start. Single ladies, I'm going to put this right here. A man isn't going to fulfill all your needs if your need is to fill holes in your heart. Too many single folks are praying for a mate ...

The people who will hurt you the most are the people you loved the most. That hurt from close people, from people you never expected to sting you, hurts like no other. If you have been there, you know that kind of hurt can leave you too weak to talk. Have you ever been hurt that way and thought you would never get back up again? Or maybe you are currently experiencing this kind of hurt? Don't worry, everything gets better with time. Maybe a friend walked away, a contract fell through, you had a setback in your family. Now it is not as easy as it used to be. It is because you are about to step into a new dimension. You were blessed, life was good, but God has so much more, He had to move that person out of your life, and not because they are not good, but because they are limiting you, they don't love you the way need to be loved. They can't go where you are going. God had to close that door so He can bring someone into your life that will love you correctly, and not break y...

Relationships are not easy, what about marriages? They are even worse only if you are in it with someone who is not meant for you. We all know that, so it is a reason I decided to gather my queens. Yes, ladies, we need to talk about this Rule #31. This might be a little long but we need to talk. I promise you it will bless you or somebody you know. First, we have to make some connections to make this make sense. Y'all know Proverbs 31? We quote it, claim it and we use it in almost every way except the way the bible intended it. Here is what I mean, Proverbs 31 wasn't written to women. Don't throw your Bible at me, let's read Proverbs 31:1-5 "The sayings of King Lemuel - an inspired utterance his mother taught him. Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb! Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers! Do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings. It is not for kings Lemuel - it is not for kings to drink wine, not for rulers to crave beer, lest ...

Life sucks when you can't enjoy it. When you can't do what you feel like doing, buy what you feel like buying, or even travel where you feel like going. This is why we, humans, try way so hard to be where we want to be in life, in other words, live our dreams. We go here and there trying to get our daily bread. Just like fingers; are not have the same shape and size, same as humans. Some are successful already and some are trying to find a way to succeed. Dream chasers. Every morning you wake and go for it, that is definitely a good sign you are getting closer to it, you making a step towards your greatness. Being all about it is one thing but knowing how to make the process short is another.  I don't say you are doing it wrong, no, it is just as you do so, you are making this one mistake that you are not aware of and it is slowing you down. You know what is it? Don't worry, in today's post, we are going to dig deeper and see how to make the process short and live y...

Hey ladies, today I have something for you. Firstly, I bet you are all fine, and if you would like to know about me, you don't have to worry, I am safe and sound. The clock is ticking, time passes, and as long as God still blesses us every day with this thing called life, and this ambition to change the world for good, we don't have any other choice but to stay reminding each other on how to stay on the right side. Secondly No hard feelings. Since I am also a lady, I am going to say it all - what I feel will help you see where you have moved foul and also help you see what you suppose to do, in a bigger picture. I guess you won't allow me to sit here and talk to myself, I need you to think, if not to think even extra hard, and do something right.  Because we have this one life to live right. It is a very special gift which we receive once in a lifetime. Okay, ladies, I will start with this "Teamwork" thing. We all know how life is boring when you have to do everyt...